Meet me in the field

2021-07-22 00:00:00 +0200 22 22 07 2021

The Rapist Forgiver

I love how chance meetings can lead to such meaningful meetings in this field of ours. Today is no exception.

I met Lois in a PSASA (Professional Speakers Association of South Africa) chat, where the topic was around hosting a podcast. I asked her to be our guest and she immediately agreed.

I am so happy to introduce Lois Wagner to you. Lois has a deeply personal journey which she shares with us, and I thank her for her vulnerability. I raise my hat to Lois for using her rape as a way to help others on a journey through fear, to forgiveness and ultimately freedom.

I am not going to say a lot more, because I feel her story must be heard first-hand.

Lois can be found in numerous places on the world wide web. She has two websites. One is and the other one is. The second website, Walking without skin, is also the name of Lois’ book, which is available on Amazon. Walking without skin is also the name of her Facebook page.

You can also find her on her YouTube channel as well as listen to her talk on TedEx.


  • Freddie
  • Lois



Recording date

09 July 2021

Running time

54min 58sec